I truly appreciate those who like and comment on my posts. That's one way to know those who value you and your opinion, message or counsel. Some others are there online, never commenting or liking your posts, then out of the blues they come and call you daddy, best friend, my beloved bla bla bla. Then there are others, you value them but they don't value you. You hold them in high esteem but the feeling isn't mutual. You may like their posts or comment but they never reciprocate. They never wish you happy birthday or give complements when you truly feel that you deserve it. This is either because they are truly busy, have such a large followership, or they simply don't feel you belong. It kinda hurts though. I just pray God helps me to patronize those who patronize me and to go the extra mile by patronizing even those who despise me. "Fall for me I fall for you" is a popular adage. There is someone out there who needs a sweet word from you. Give it. Don't
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